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[0:49] # May the day be well
and the night be well.
[0:57] # May the midday hour
bring happiness, too.
[1:03] # In every minute and every second,
[1:10] # may the day and night be well.
[1:15] # By the blessing of the Triple Gem,
[1:20] # may all things be protected and safe.
[1:26] # May all beings born
in each of the four ways
[1:33] # live in a land of purity.
[1:39] # May all in the Three Realms
be born upon Lotus Thrones.
[1:45] # May countless wandering souls
[1:50] # realize the three virtuous positions
of the Bodhisattva Path.
[1:57] # May all living beings,
with grace and ease,
[2:03] # fulfill the Bodhisattva Stages.
[2:09] # The countenance
of the World-Honored One,
[2:15] # like the full moon,
or like the orb of the sun,
[2:23] # shines with the light of clarity.
[2:30] # A halo of wisdom
spreads in every direction,
[2:39] enveloping all with love and compassion,
joy and equanimity.
[2:54] # Namo Shakyamunaye Buddhaya,
[3:09] # Namo Shakyamunaye Buddhaya,
[3:23] # Namo Shakyamunaye Buddhaya. #
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[3:49] #From the depths of understanding,
[4:01] # a flower of great eloquence blooms:
[4:08] # The Bodhisattva stands majestically
[4:16] # upon the waves of birth and death,
free from all afflictions.
[4:31] # Her great compassion
eliminates all sickness,
[4:41] # even that once thought of as incurable.
[4:48] # Her wondrous light sweeps away
all obstacles and dangers.
[5:02] # Her willow branch, once waved,
reveals countless Buddha Lands.
[5:14] # Her lotus flower blossoms
a multitude of practice centers.
[5:26] # We bow to her.
[5:30] # We see her true presence
in the here and the now.
[5:38] # We offer her
the incense of our hearts.
[5:49] # May the Bodhisattva of Deep Listening
embrace us all with Great Compassion.
[6:05] # Namo 'valokiteshvaraya,
[6:13] # Namo 'valokiteshvaraya,
[6:21] # Namo 'valokiteshvaraya. #
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[11:34] Good morning, dear friends.
[11:36] I hope everyone can hear clearly enough.
[11:48] I began the practice of mindfulness
at the age of 16.
[11:54] I was ordained as a novice monk
at the age of 16.
[12:00] And the first book,
text of mindfulness,
[12:16] contains a number of verses.
[12:24] Each verse has 4 lines.
[12:29] And each line has 5 words.
[12:32] It was written in classical Chinese.
[12:41] When I woke up in the morning,
[12:44] I was supposed to read
the first line of a verse
[12:51] and then breathe.
[12:55] When I breathed in,
[12:58] I read the first line
[13:02] silently, inside.
[13:05] When I breathed out,
[13:07] I read the second line.
[13:14] Then, one in-breath for the third line
[13:17] and one in-breath for the fourth line.
[13:21] That is a verse that helps me
to be mindful when I wake up.
[13:28] The first gatha, the fist verse,
goes like this:
[13:37] "Waking up in the morning, I smile".
[13:43] The first thing you do in the morning
is to smile.
[13:47] "Waking up in the morning, I smile."
[13:53] You breathe in and you smile.
[14:00] Then, when you breathe out
you read the second line:
[14:05] "I have 24 brand new hours to live."
[14:13] That is a gift of life.
[14:16] 24 brand new hours to live!
[14:21] That is a lot.
[14:27] Then, when I breathe in again
I read the third line:
[14:31] "I vow to live these 24 hours deeply."
[14:37] Each hour deeply,
I will not waste them.
[14:43] I don't allow anger, fear and jealousy
[14:48] to prevent me from living deeply
these 24 hours given to me.
[15:01] And the last line is:
[15:04] "I make the vow to learn
to look at the people around me
[15:09] with the eyes of compassion."
[15:14] That is the first verse.
[15:18] A novice has to memorize
all these verses
[15:22] in order to practice mindfulness.
[15:26] "Waking up in the morning, I smile.
[15:29] I have 24 brand new hours to live.
[15:34] I vow to live them deeply
[15:37] and learn to look at the people around me
with the eyes of compassion."
[15:42] There is no thinking,
just breathing
[15:45] and remembering to live in such a way
[15:50] that you will not waste your life.
[15:58] When you brush your teeth,
[16:01] there is one verse for you
to brush your teeth.
[16:04] So while you are brushing your teeth
you can be happy,
[16:08] you can be mindful.
[16:10] You appreciate the water,
[16:11] you appreciate the time that you have
in order to brush your teeth.
[16:22] When you put on your robe,
[16:24] there is one verse for you to practice.
[16:34] When you sit down,
[16:37] there is a verse for you to sit down.
[16:41] A novice, before he sits down,
he breathes and reads a verse.
[16:49] You don't hear anything,
[16:52] but a novice is supposed to practice
[16:55] mindfulness of breathing
while sitting down.
[16:58] It goes like this:
[17:04] "Sitting down here is like
sitting at the foot of the Bodhi tree
[17:10] and wake up like a Buddha."
[17:21] I am sitting down
and allow myself to be free,
[17:27] not to be bound by afflictions
like anger and fear.
[17:35] I sit down as a free person.
[17:44] So there are about 50 verses like that
for a novice to learn by heart
[17:51] so that he or she can practice
mindfulness throughout the day
[17:55] and enjoy every moment of his daily life.
[18:01] We have translated these verses
into English, French and so on.
[18:09] You may like to use them
[18:10] in order to practice
mindfulness of breathing
[18:14] so that you improve the quality
of your daily life.
[18:25] We have invented new verses,
[18:30] like "Riding a Bicycle",
[18:35] because the text is very ancient,
[18:37] there is no verse
for riding a bicycle.
[18:42] (Laughter)
[18:45] So I invented a verse to ride a bicycle.
[18:49] It may be interesting for you to know
[18:55] that I am one of the first Buddhists monks
in Vietnam to ride on a bicycle.
[19:00] (Laughter)
[19:02] That is very modern.
[19:04] (Laughter)
[19:06] Now people drive a car,
[19:09] use scooters,
[19:11] but at that time,
for a monk to ride on a bicycle
[19:13] was something very new.
[19:21] Now, we have also a verse
[19:27] for you to use when you are about
to make a phone call,
[19:32] called "telephone meditation".
[19:37] (Laughter)
[19:42] You are holding the phone,
[19:46] and you want to call him or her.
[19:48] So you breathe in with one line,
[19:52] and breathe out with the second line,
[19:55] and breathe in with the third line
[19:57] and breathe out with the fourth line.
[20:01] And you are calm after that.
[20:04] The quality of the talk will be better.
[20:08] "Words can travel thousands of kilometers,
[20:12] they can build more
understanding and love.
[20:17] I vow that what I am going to say
[20:19] will promote
mutual understanding and love.
[20:22] Every word I say will be beautiful
like flowers or embroideries."
[20:30] So before you compose the number,
[20:35] you hold the telephone
[20:38] and you enjoy breathing in and out
two times reading that.
[20:43] And you are fresh enough
to make the telephone call.
[20:50] And when you hear the sound
on the other end of the line,
[20:59] you know that the other person
is not answering you right away,
[21:02] because she is practicing breathing also.
[21:06] (Laughter)
[21:09] Yes, in Plum Village,
when you hear the telephone
[21:13] you are not supposed to answer right away.
[21:17] The sound of the telephone
is considered to be
[21:19] a bell of mindfulness.
[21:25] Because if you don't practice,
[21:28] the sound of the telephone
may disturb you a little bit.
[21:31] Who is calling?
Good news or bad news?
[21:35] But if you are a practitioner
of the telephone meditation,
[21:39] then, you stay where you are
[21:41] you listen to the sound of the telephone
[21:44] and you breathe in and out,
you calm yourself.
[21:53] So next time,
when you call to Plum Village,
[21:56] if you don't get an answer right away...
[21:58] (Laughter)
[22:00] you know that
they are breathing in and out!
[22:03] (Laughter)
[22:08] If you know that
they are breathing in and out,
[22:11] you tell yourself:
[22:12] "They are breathing in and out.
Why not me?"
[22:15] (Laughter)
[22:17] So you don't wait.
[22:18] You just enjoy
breathing in and out again
[22:21] until the other person
answers the phone.
[22:25] That is called telephone meditation.
[22:35] There is a lay Dharma teacher
in India, Shantum.
[22:47] His mother was
the president of the Supreme Court.
[22:56] When we visited her,
we talked about telephone meditation.
[23:02] She found it very helpful.
[23:04] So she uses the practice
of telephone meditation.
[23:12] Imagine, in the city of Barcelona,
[23:17] everyone practicing
telephone meditation.
[23:23] There will be
much more peace, happiness,
[23:26] mutual understanding and love,
[23:29] because we have the time
to refresh ourselves,
[23:33] to improve the quality of our talking.
[23:38] By talking you can promote
more understanding, love and so on.
[23:48] In the Plum Village's Chanting Book
[23:51] you can find a few dozens
of verses like that.
[23:55] If you want, you can memorize them
[23:58] and enjoy practicing them
in your daily life.
[24:03] "Sitting Down", "Beginning to Walk".
[24:06] There is one for you
to wash your dishes.
[24:12] Because it may be pleasant
to do the dishes.
[24:22] You can enjoy washing the dishes,
[24:24] breathing and using a gatha.
[24:29] Everything done in mindfulness
can bring you joy and happiness.
[24:33] Including starting a car.
[24:36] There is one for you to start your car.
[24:47] Of course, when an unpleasant feeling
is coming up,
[24:54] you have a gatha in order to practice
[24:57] to take care of the painful feeling
that is going up.
[25:06] These verses are very helpful
for the life of a practitioner.
[25:22] The practice of mindfulness
can be very concrete.
[25:30] There are five areas
of practicing mindfulness.
[25:38] The first is to protect life.
[25:45] Protecting life.
[25:48] Because life is so precious!
[25:51] You have to protect your own life.
[25:57] Protect yourself.
[25:59] Protect the life
of the people you love.
[26:04] And protect the lives
of other living beings,
[26:10] including animals, plants and minerals.
[26:17] And to protect the planet Earth.
[26:21] That is the first mindfulness training.
[26:27] Reverence for life,
protecting life.
[26:37] (1. Protecting LIFE)
[27:10] There are many young people
[27:15] who kill themselves every day.
[27:19] Because they do not know
how to handle a strong emotion.
[27:28] The practice of mindfulness
can help them
[27:30] not to destroy themselves like that.
[27:36] I think that
if schoolteachers and parents
[27:39] know the practice,
[27:41] they can transmit it
to the young people.
[27:45] In countries like Japan,
[27:48] every year, about 30.000
people commit suicide.
[27:54] 30.000!
That is a lot.
[28:01] In Hong Kong,
in the UK, in America,
[28:08] everywhere, young people
are killing themselves
[28:11] because they don't know
how to handle a strong emotion.
[28:16] The practice of mindful breathing,
mindful walking,
[28:19] can help us
to handle a strong emotion.
[28:24] We should know how to do it
[28:27] and tell the young people
how to do it.
[28:31] We would save their life.
[28:36] When a strong emotion is coming,
[28:42] we know it is coming.
[28:45] We are aware that it is coming.
[28:47] So we stop doing things
[28:50] and we stop thinking.
[28:52] Because if we continue to think,
the emotion becomes stronger.
[29:00] We go back to the practice
of mindful breathing right away.
[29:06] Whether you are in a sitting position
or you are in a lying position,
[29:12] you practice mindful deep breathing.
[29:19] Bring your mind down
[29:22] to the level of the stomach.
[29:41] Focus your attention on the rising
and falling of the stomach.
[29:47] Breathing in, I know it is rising.
[29:51] Breathing out, I know it is falling.
[29:55] If you are in a lying position,
[30:00] you may like to put
your hand on your stomach
[30:05] and breathing in you feel
that your stomach is rising,
[30:09] breathing out you feel
that your stomach is falling.
[30:16] Try to breathe as deeply as possible
[30:20] and focus your attention only
on the rising and falling of the stomach.
[30:29] You maintain this insight:
[30:35] that a strong emotion
[30:38] is something that comes,
[30:45] stays for a while and goes.
[30:50] It is impermanent.
[30:53] You are much more than an emotion.
[30:59] An emotion is just a tiny thing.
[31:04] But you are much more
than an emotion.
[31:10] You are made of body,
feelings, perceptions,
[31:14] mental formations, consciousness.
[31:17] The territory of your being is large,
[31:20] and an emotion is just
a little bit of you.
[31:25] Why do you have to die
because of one emotion?
[31:31] An emotion is like a storm.
[31:34] If you know how to handle a storm,
you survive very well.
[31:40] That kind of insight
should be maintained alive
[31:43] during the time you handle the emotion.
[31:57] (Bell)
[32:02] (Bell)
[32:32] The practice is easy enough:
[32:35] stop the thinking,
[32:37] bring your attention down
to the level of the navel,
[32:42] practice breathing in and out
[32:45] and become aware of the rising
and falling of your abdomen.
[32:49] Maintain that insight alive:
[32:51] an emotion is just an emotion.
[32:54] I don't have to die
just because of one emotion.
[33:00] It comes and it will go away.
[33:06] If you focus your attention
only on the in-breath and out-breath,
[33:12] the rising and falling of the abdomen,
[33:15] you are safe.
[33:17] Mindfulness is protecting you.
[33:19] There is no thinking.
[33:21] There is only
the breathing and the calming.
[33:25] 5 minutes later, or 8,
it will go away
[33:29] and you will survive the emotion.
[33:33] Next time,
when the emotion comes,
[33:35] you are no longer afraid.
[33:37] "I know how to handle it.
I'm not afraid."
[33:47] But we should not wait
until a strong emotion comes
[33:51] in order to begin the practice,
[33:54] because, naturally,
we will forget to practice.
[33:57] And you allow yourself
to be carried away by the strong emotion.
[34:01] We have to practice
mindful breathing every day.
[34:05] The practice of deep breathing,
[34:09] belly breathing, abdomen breathing,
[34:13] a few minutes a day.
[34:15] In a few weeks it will become a habit,
[34:18] and when a strong emotion,
a painful feeling comes,
[34:22] we will remember to practice.
[34:26] We will be able
to survive the emotion very well.
[34:35] Your little boy, your little girl,
may get into a crisis
[34:41] with a strong emotion.
[34:45] You may like
to hold his hand and say:
[34:48] "Darling, breathe in with mummy.
[34:52] Don't you see that when we breathe in,
our stomach is rising?
[34:59] And when we breathe out
our stomach is falling?"
[35:04] So you do
a guided meditation for the child.
[35:10] As you have the energy of mindfulness,
[35:12] you transmit it
to the little boy, to the little girl.
[35:17] You train your little boy or little girl
to breathe in and out
[35:23] and to take care of the strong emotion.
[35:29] This is possible.
[35:31] Later on,
[35:34] the boy, the girl,
can do it by himself.
[35:39] As schoolteachers,
[35:42] we may like to do that
for our students who are in trouble,
[35:49] who have been carried away
by a strong emotion.
[35:54] We can also ask other children,
other students, to help.
[36:02] Suppose in the class
there is a boy who is in crisis.
[36:09] It does not seem
that we can calm him down.
[36:13] So we ask the whole class
to practice to support the boy.
[36:21] You can prepare so that
you and your students
[36:25] can practice mindful breathing,
[36:28] generating that collective
energy of mindfulness and peace
[36:32] and help the boy that is in crisis.
[36:39] He is aware of the love, the compassion
of the whole group, the whole class,
[36:48] and he will suffer less.
[36:56] So parents and teachers
should master the practice
[37:03] and transmit the practice
of deep abdomen breathing
[37:09] to the young people.
It is very important.
[37:11] That is something
that should be taught in school.
[37:33] The second realm of the practice
[37:36] is the realm of true happiness.
[37:46] Practicing True Happiness.
[38:02] I think a discussion on true happiness
should be taken up
[38:13] as a topic.
[38:19] Because so many people believe
[38:21] that happiness is made
of fame, power, money
[38:28] and sensual pleasures.
[38:35] We know that there are many people
who have plenty of these things
[38:40] and they suffer very deeply.
[38:42] Many of them
commit suicide also.
[38:48] So we should try
to help the young people
[38:53] to see that true happiness
is made of understanding and love.
[39:15] In fact, love is born
from understanding.
[39:23] If you do not understand someone,
you cannot love him or her,
[39:28] or make him or her happy.
[39:35] So it may be helpful
to ask the other person:
[39:38] "Darling, do you think
that I understand you?
[39:48] Do you think that
I have understood you enough?
[39:51] If not, please, help me."
[39:58] We know that understanding ourselves
[40:04] will help to understand
the other person.
[40:09] We need to understand our own suffering,
[40:13] our own difficulties,
[40:17] before we can understand
[40:20] the suffering and difficulties
of the other person.
[40:27] When you feel understood,
you feel loved.
[40:32] So what you can offer
to the person you love
[40:36] is understanding.
[40:40] Understanding is something
that can grow every day.
[40:44] In true love, understanding
is growing every day.
[40:52] You have to feed your love
with understanding.
[40:55] You have try to understand
the other person.
[40:58] Specially the difficulties,
the suffering in him or in her.
[41:02] And if needed, you can
ask that person to help.
[41:13] A father may be motivated
by making his son happy,
[41:24] but if the father does not understand
[41:26] the suffering
and the difficulties of the son,
[41:30] the more he tries,
[41:32] the more he makes his son suffer.
[41:35] Because understanding
is very important.
[41:39] That is why the father
should ask the son:
[41:42] "My son, do you think
I understand your problems,
[41:45] I understand your difficulties?"
[41:51] And the son,
in order to be able to love his father,
[41:54] should do the same:
[41:57] "Father, do you think
that I understand you,
[42:01] your suffering, your difficulties?
[42:04] Please, tell me."
[42:06] So understanding is a practice.
[42:11] Last night we have talked
[42:16] about the practice of deep listening
and loving speech
[42:21] that can help us
to understand the suffering
[42:27] and to restore communication.
[42:32] So to love means to understand.
[42:37] Understanding
is the other word for love.
[42:41] If you don't understand someone
[42:47] you cannot love him or her.
[42:51] Cultivating understanding
[42:55] and creating love and compassion,
[42:59] that is the true element of happiness.
[43:04] A person without understanding and love
cannot be a happy person.
[43:10] With plenty of understanding and love,
[43:13] even if you don't have
a lot of money, fame, profit,
[43:17] you are a happy person anyway.
[43:20] That is why
[43:23] mindfulness is a kind of practice
that can help us to understand
[43:28] what is true happiness.
[43:31] True happiness is not made
with the objects of craving,
[43:35] like fame,
[43:39] power, wealth and sensual pleasures,
[43:43] but with understanding
and compassion.
[43:49] The Kingdom of God is a place
[43:51] where there is
a lot of understanding and love.
[43:55] We can contribute into generating
more understanding and love
[44:02] and make the place
a real Kingdom for all of us.
[44:17] The third area of practice of mindfulness
[44:23] is the practice of True Love.
[44:27] (3. Practicing True Love)
[44:38] We learn
[44:42] that sexual desire is not true love.
[44:50] People mix up the two,
love and sexual desire.
[44:55] Sexual desires very often destroy love,
[45:00] and create a lot of suffering.
[45:05] Most young people
don't know what is true love.
[45:15] As schoolteachers, as parents,
we have to help them.
[45:37] Girls and boys in high school,
[45:40] they suffer a lot.
[45:43] Because they do not know
what is true love.
[45:49] They are losing the most precious thing
within themselves.
[45:53] They continue to suffer
for all their lives,
[45:57] because they do not know
exactly what is true love.
[46:23] A boy asked his girlfriend
[46:28] to send him a picture of her nude.
[46:41] And the girl did not want to do it.
[46:55] But she was afraid
[46:57] that the boy would abandon her.
[47:05] So she had to send him her picture,
[47:12] taken with her own telephone.
[47:17] And the boy
showed that picture to his friends.
[47:22] Small things like that
happen everywhere
[47:27] and make the young people
suffer very deeply.
[47:32] That is what is going on
with the younger generation.
[47:37] They don't know exactly
what is true love.
[47:45] That is why
[47:47] teaching True Love to the young people
is very important.
[47:54] Tell them that sexual desire is not love.
[47:58] Tell them that true love
is made of compassion,
[48:02] loving kindness, joy
and non discrimination.
[48:15] Maitri is the Sanskrit word
for loving kindness.
[48:21] (maitri: loving kindness)
[48:27] It is very much like friendship.
[48:35] Maitri is the first element of true love.
[48:41] That is friendship,
brotherhood, sisterhood.
[48:46] It has the power
to offer happiness.
[48:56] You can generate joy and happiness,
[49:02] you can help generate
[49:04] a feeling of joy and happiness
in him or in her.
[49:08] That is maitri.
[49:11] True love should offer happiness.
[49:19] Not the intention to offer happiness.
[49:23] Because you may have a lot of intention
to make someone happy,
[49:26] but the way you do it
makes him or her suffer.
[49:30] So it is not the intention to love,
but the capacity to make someone happy.
[49:42] If you practice
mindful breathing, mindful walking,
[49:46] and restore your freshness,
[49:52] your beauty, your calm,
[49:58] you can offer
these elements to him, to her.
[50:03] That is maitri.
[50:06] You are so pleasant,
[50:08] you are so fresh,
[50:11] so pleasant to be with,
[50:15] you can generate
joy, happiness and peace
[50:19] and you can help him or her
to generate joy, happiness and peace.
[50:24] That is maitri.
[50:26] That is true love.
[50:29] And that is a practice,
[50:31] that is possible as a practice.
[50:35] The young people can do it.
[50:48] The second element
of true love is karuna,
[50:59] which is compassion.
[51:06] (karuna: compassion)
[51:10] Karuna is the capacity
to help someone to suffer less,
[51:19] to remove the suffering in him or her,
[51:25] to transform the suffering
in him or in her.
[51:30] We know that the practice
of compassionate listening
[51:36] can make a person suffer less.
[51:48] You understand
the suffering in him or in her,
[51:53] you help him or her
to empty his heart
[51:59] and suffer less.
[52:02] If you know how to help
a person to suffer less,
[52:07] you have the element
of karuna in your love.
[52:14] True love should have karuna.
[52:17] The capacity to help someone
to suffer less.
[52:37] With the energy of mindfulness
and compassion in you,
[52:42] you can do a lot of things.
[52:46] You can help a person to suffer less
[52:49] just by sitting close to him or her,
[52:52] or just saying something
full of compassion and understanding.
[52:59] Just show her the way
to restore joy and happiness.
[53:07] We can do many things
[53:09] in order to help a person
to suffer less.
[53:17] The third element is mudita,
[53:26] which is joy.
[53:30] (mudita: joy)
[53:34] If when loving someone
you make him or her suffer
[53:39] and cry every day,
[53:41] that is not true love.
[53:43] True love should offer joy.
[53:46] Joy is a mark of true love.
[53:51] True love should generate joy,
[53:54] for yourself and for him, for her.
[53:57] If you make him or her cry and suffer,
[54:00] that is not true love.
[54:03] The joy is of both of you.
[54:11] The fourth element
of true love is upeksa.
[54:16] Upeksa is
non discrimination, inclusiveness.
[54:32] Equanimity.
[54:38] (upeksa: equanimity)
[54:44] In true love,
there is no longer any frontier
[54:48] between you and her, and him.
[54:56] Your suffering is his suffering.
[54:59] Her happiness is your happiness.
[55:03] You cannot say:
"Darling, that is your problem."
[55:06] No.
[55:08] Your problem is my problem, darling.
[55:11] In true love
there is no longer discrimination
[55:14] between the lover and the beloved one.
[55:22] Your happiness is her happiness.
[55:26] Your suffering is his suffering.
[55:31] No discrimination.
You include everyone.
[55:37] You include each other.
[55:40] If it is true love,
[55:44] it continues to grow every day.
[55:49] The moment when love stops growing,
[55:52] it begins to die.
[55:58] We have witnessed
the death of love several times.
[56:02] Love turning into hate and anger
[56:05] because you don't know
how to feed your love.
[56:11] The Buddha said that
nothing can survive without food.
[56:18] Our depression also.
[56:21] If our depression continues,
[56:24] it is because we keep
feeding our depression.
[56:32] If we know how to
stop feeding our depression,
[56:37] our depression will have to die,
[56:39] it will go away.
[56:43] The same thing is true with our love.
[56:45] If we do not know
how to feed our love daily,
[56:49] it will stop growing,
[56:51] it will die, slowly.
[56:55] That is why
[57:03] to practice in order to help our love
to grow every day
[57:11] is to guarantee happiness,
continued happiness.
[57:21] With the practice
of upeksa, inclusiveness,
[57:26] your love continues to grow every day.
[57:30] It begins with two persons,
[57:33] but as you are happy
in that true love,
[57:35] your love very soon
includes a third, a fourth person.
[57:42] You don't discriminate anymore.
[57:46] You don't love a person
[57:49] just because she comes
from the same country,
[57:54] because she follows
the same religious belief.
[58:00] There is no discrimination whatsoever
in true love.
[58:06] Everyone will be
included in your love.
[58:09] Your love continues to grow
and embraces everyone,
[58:13] not only humans,
[58:16] but also animals, plants and minerals.
[58:19] That is the love of a great being.
[58:28] Including everything,
that is upeksa.
[58:40] The practice of true love
has to be taught in school.
[58:49] Schoolteachers should embody true love.
[59:27] (4. Practicing Loving Speech
and Deep Listening)
[59:43] The fourth area of the practice
[59:47] is the practice of loving speech
[59:50] and deep listening.
[59:56] This is the fourth mindfulness training.
[1:00:00] Yesterday we spoke a little
about that practice already.
[1:00:08] If we know how to use loving speech,
[1:00:13] if we can talk lovingly
and compassionately to another person,
[1:00:18] that person will open her heart
[1:00:21] and tell us about the suffering,
the difficulties that she has.
[1:00:29] If you know how to
listen with compassion,
[1:00:34] then you can restore communication
[1:00:39] and bring about reconciliation.
[1:00:46] In the case of schoolteachers,
[1:00:49] this practice should be done
with the people in the family first.
[1:00:59] When we have succeeded
with the members of our family,
[1:01:04] we can bring the practice to the school.
[1:01:08] If we have difficulties
with our colleagues,
[1:01:14] then we can
restore communication and reconcile.
[1:01:20] Finally, we can bring that
into our school.
[1:01:29] Without these practices,
[1:01:31] teachers can make students suffer
[1:01:34] and students can make
teachers suffer.
[1:01:39] There is a gap
between the two generations.
[1:01:52] We can imagine
[1:01:55] teachers and students sitting together,
[1:01:58] talking to each other about
the suffering they have gone through.
[1:02:06] Teachers have to be able
to tell the students:
[1:02:11] "I know you have suffered.
[1:02:13] I know you may have
difficulties in your family."
[1:02:18] And so on.
[1:02:20] "If you don't make
much progress in your studies,
[1:02:24] it is due to these difficulties.
[1:02:28] So please, tell me, tell us."
[1:02:32] The whole class can sit
and listen with compassion.
[1:02:38] That will transform the students.
[1:02:42] Because other students
may have the same kind of suffering.
[1:02:49] It would be lovely
[1:02:51] if schoolteachers can sit down
[1:02:53] and listen to the suffering
of their own students.
[1:03:00] We should have the time to do it.
[1:03:09] Last week, in a retreat at Madrid,
[1:03:15] during a session
of questions and answers,
[1:03:19] a boy of 11 came up
and asked a question.
[1:03:26] He suffered, he begins to have
difficulties in sleeping.
[1:03:33] He blamed everything on his mother.
[1:03:43] I believe that all mothers want
their sons and daughters to be happy.
[1:03:48] They have a plan,
[1:03:50] they have ideas as how their sons
and daughters can be happy.
[1:03:54] They just deliver that kind of message.
[1:04:01] The boy suffered,
[1:04:02] even when his mother
said goodnight.
[1:04:05] Why do you suffer
when your mother says goodnight?
[1:04:09] Because your mother
may mean by "Goodnight":
[1:04:13] "Don't stay up late,
[1:04:16] don't play electronic games!"
[1:04:19] There is a blaming
in that kind of things.
[1:04:24] The relationship between mother and son
has become difficult.
[1:04:29] So he came up,
[1:04:31] and in front of 600 people
he asked the question:
[1:04:34] "Dear Thay,
[1:04:36] I start having difficulties in sleeping.
[1:04:40] My mother is always like that,
[1:04:44] imposing things on me."
[1:04:48] And so on.
[1:04:51] The mother believes that
she is acting out of love.
[1:04:55] She is prescribing the right thing
for his son to do.
[1:05:01] Like a teacher.
[1:05:08] But the way she does it,
[1:05:15] did not work.
[1:05:19] Because she does not feel
well in herself.
[1:05:27] So I answered the boy:
[1:05:30] "You know that mothers have
their own difficulties and suffering.
[1:05:37] You believe that
you are the only one who suffers.
[1:05:41] But you don't know
[1:05:44] that your mother
has difficulties and suffering also.
[1:05:46] You have not had the time
[1:05:49] to think about the difficulties
and suffering of your mother.
[1:05:53] You have not helped
your mother to suffer less.
[1:05:55] In fact,
you have reacted in such a way
[1:05:58] that makes your mother suffer more.
[1:06:02] Please, think about her, her suffering,
[1:06:06] and not just your suffering.
[1:06:11] You should go and ask your mother
[1:06:15] what kind of suffering
she is undergoing,
[1:06:20] what kind of difficulties
she has in herself.
[1:06:26] Maybe she does not know
[1:06:28] how to handle the suffering in herself.
[1:06:30] That is why,
[1:06:32] the way she tells you
what to do and not to do
[1:06:34] makes you irritated."
[1:06:37] Why I was giving that answer
to the young men?
[1:06:42] Many mothers down there were crying.
[1:06:46] Because we, mothers,
we also have our own suffering.
[1:06:50] And our sons and daughters
do not know that we suffer.
[1:06:54] They just blame us.
[1:07:01] Your students, they suffer.
[1:07:05] They have difficulties
with their mother,
[1:07:08] their father and so on.
[1:07:15] Talking to them
showing them the practice,
[1:07:19] can help them to suffer less.
[1:07:22] And you can do better.
[1:07:25] Because these young people,
[1:07:28] when they have overcome the difficulties,
[1:07:31] when they have understood
the suffering of their parents,
[1:07:34] they go back and help their parents.
[1:07:38] We have organized retreats
of mindfulness for young people.
[1:07:46] In Europe, in America, in Asia.
[1:07:50] And many young people
[1:07:53] get transformation and healing
during the retreat.
[1:07:56] When they went home,
they helped their parents
[1:08:01] and they were able to restore
communication with their parents,
[1:08:11] and many of them are able
to invite their parents to join a retreat.
[1:08:16] Schoolteachers can do the same.
[1:08:19] We can help students to suffer less,
[1:08:23] to understand,
[1:08:25] to suffer less.
[1:08:27] And that student can go home
[1:08:30] and help his parents
to suffer less also.
[1:08:35] This has been possible
with the practice of mindfulness.
[1:08:47] (Bell)
[1:08:49] (Bell)
[1:08:54] (Bell)
[1:09:23] A retreat of mindfulness
usually lasts 6 days.
[1:09:27] Our retreat has only 2 days and a half.
[1:09:32] During the first 3, 4 days
[1:09:39] we learn how to water the seeds
of understanding and compassion in us.
[1:09:50] We learn how to calm down
our emotions and feelings.
[1:09:58] We try to touch the wonders of life,
refreshing and healing,
[1:10:04] to heal ourselves.
[1:10:07] And that is why
[1:10:09] on the 5th day
we can put into practice
[1:10:11] the teaching of
deep listening and loving speech.
[1:10:20] The miracle of reconciliation
always takes place in our retreats.
[1:10:28] If the other person is in the retreat
[1:10:31] that will be easy.
[1:10:33] Because he or she has been exposed
to the teachings and the practice.
[1:10:38] The seeds of understanding and compassion
have been watered
[1:10:43] by the Dharma talks,
[1:10:46] by the practice of mindful breathing
and looking deeply.
[1:10:51] But if the other person
is not in the retreat
[1:10:54] you can use your
portable telephone to practice.
[1:10:59] Usually, we encourage
the people to do it
[1:11:10] before the end of the retreat.
[1:11:15] They have until midnight of the 5th day
in order to do it.
[1:11:22] Many people have used the telephone
[1:11:25] and it works very well.
[1:11:27] Many people report
on the last day of the retreat
[1:11:31] that the night before have telephoned
their parents, their partner,
[1:11:38] using the techniques of
compassionate listening and loving speech,
[1:11:45] restore communication and reconcile.
[1:11:49] So the miracle of reconciliation
always takes place in our retreats.
[1:11:55] And this can be done in the classroom.
[1:12:03] I believe that, as schoolteachers,
[1:12:07] we have to tell our students
[1:12:09] about our difficulties
and our suffering.
[1:12:13] Schoolteachers do suffer
[1:12:17] and we have the right
to tell our students about that.
[1:12:23] We can begin our class by saying
[1:12:27] that in order to improve the quality
of the teaching and the learning,
[1:12:41] so that the teachers
enjoy teaching
[1:12:45] and the students enjoy learning,
[1:12:49] we have to do something.
[1:12:53] Otherwise, both sides will suffer.
[1:12:56] So would you agree that we do something
[1:13:00] in order for the schoolteachers
enjoy the teaching
[1:13:04] and the students enjoy the learning?
[1:13:07] Because the suffering in us
prevents us from doing so.
[1:13:11] So I should tell you
my suffering, my difficulties
[1:13:17] and you should also tell me
your difficulties, your suffering.
[1:13:22] We should understand each other.
[1:13:24] And after we have mutual understanding,
[1:13:28] we don't blame each other any more,
[1:13:30] we don't make it difficult
for each other any more,
[1:13:33] and we can go more easily and quickly
[1:13:41] on the path of teaching and learning.
[1:13:53] There are many things
that we can do in the classroom
[1:13:57] in order to help students
to suffer less.
[1:14:02] Like schoolteachers leading sessions
of total, deep relaxation.
[1:14:14] Because the young people have tension
in their body and in their feelings also.
[1:14:24] A good students can also learn
[1:14:27] how to lead a session of
total relaxation for the whole class,
[1:14:35] lying on the grass
[1:14:40] and so on.
[1:14:47] If you notice
[1:14:49] that a boy or a girl
suffers in the class,
[1:14:56] she seems to be very upset,
her mind is not there,
[1:15:00] how can she learn?
[1:15:04] So we can address her
[1:15:10] and ask what is wrong.
[1:15:15] And she may say:
[1:15:16] "My mother
was hospitalized this morning,
[1:15:23] and I don't know
if she can survive or not."
[1:15:27] With that kind of feeling,
how can she learn?
[1:15:32] You cannot impose
your will on her.
[1:15:43] So the teacher can address
the whole class and say:
[1:15:46] "We have a student
whose mother is hospitalized
[1:15:57] and she worries much about that.
[1:15:59] Shall we, the whole class,
[1:16:02] practice breathing together, mindfully?
[1:16:09] We will send this energy
of mindfulness and compassion
[1:16:13] to her mother."
[1:16:16] Using that kind of
collective energy of mindfulness
[1:16:20] generated by the breathing
done by teachers and other students,
[1:16:26] you can help calm down that student
[1:16:36] and she may be able to follow the class.
[1:16:42] There are things like that
[1:16:44] that schoolteachers can do.
[1:16:49] There are
difficult elements in the class.
[1:16:54] If we look deeply,
[1:16:55] we will see why
that young man, young woman
[1:17:00] behaves in that way.
[1:17:03] If we have enough compassion to inquire,
[1:17:06] we find out
[1:17:08] and the whole class
may come and help.
[1:17:12] So listening to each other
[1:17:15] and understanding
the suffering of each other
[1:17:22] we can calm down
the feelings, the emotions.
[1:17:29] We can promote mutual understanding
[1:17:34] and we don't make
each other suffer any more.
[1:17:36] We make it easier for everyone
[1:17:39] in the task of teaching and learning.
[1:17:49] Henri, who was a
professor of mathematics
[1:17:54] in the French school of Toronto,
[1:17:58] after having spent
three weeks in Plum Village,
[1:18:01] he went back to his school
[1:18:03] and practiced mindfulness
with his students.
[1:18:08] He walks slowly
and mindfully into the class.
[1:18:12] He begins to erase what is
on the blackboard mindfully
[1:18:17] and they say:
[1:18:18] "Dear teacher,
are you sick?"
[1:18:20] (Laughter)
[1:18:22] He says: "No, I am not sick.
[1:18:24] I just practice mindful walking,
[1:18:26] mindful...
[1:18:29] I enjoy that.
[1:18:31] I feel a lot of peace.
[1:18:34] I am very relaxed
because I have learned mindfulness.
[1:18:39] Would you like me
to tell you what I did in Plum Village?"
[1:18:43] And they listened.
[1:18:46] They agreed that every 15 minutes,
[1:18:51] a boy would clap his hands,
[1:18:58] because they did not have
a bell of mindfulness,
[1:19:02] and every one,
including the teacher,
[1:19:04] would practice
mindful breathing and relax.
[1:19:07] Stop the thinking.
[1:19:11] And that helped
very much in the learning.
[1:19:18] In the beginning,
it was like a play,
[1:19:21] but finally it worked very well.
[1:19:27] Transformation and healing took place
[1:19:30] and the class made a lot of progress.
[1:19:40] Other classes followed their example.
[1:19:52] And when he came
to the age of retirement,
[1:19:58] the administration asked him
to stay for a few more years.
[1:20:05] He was able to bring the practice
of mindfulness into the school
[1:20:09] and improve the quality
of teaching and learning in the school.
[1:20:27] So the practice of loving speech
and deep listening
[1:20:32] should create an atmosphere
of mutual understanding in the class
[1:20:39] and the students will not
make it difficult for teachers.
[1:20:46] The quality of teaching
and learning will be improved.
[1:21:00] Mindfulness can be practiced
in the realm
[1:21:07] of mindful consumption.
[1:21:15] (5. Practicing Mindful Consumption)
[1:21:31] Our society is a society of consumption.
[1:21:34] We believe that happiness
is to have enough money
[1:21:42] to buy whatever you want to buy.
[1:21:48] That is an idea about happiness.
[1:21:53] But we already know
[1:21:54] that true happiness
is made of understanding and love.
[1:22:00] You cannot buy understanding
and love in the supermarket.
[1:22:05] You have to generate these two things
by the practice.
[1:22:20] This, again,
should be taught in the school.
[1:22:26] The first...
[1:22:29] The kind of...
[1:22:31] In the Buddhist tradition,
[1:22:34] we speak about
the four kinds of nutriments.
[1:22:37] Four kinds of food.
[1:22:41] Four kinds of consumption.
[1:22:44] First of all,
[1:22:46] there is the edible food.
[1:22:59] (edible food)
[1:23:01] That is the kind of food
[1:23:03] that we consume by the way of the mouth.
[1:23:06] Your health depends very much
on what you eat.
[1:23:19] We should eat in such a way
[1:23:25] that can preserve
compassion in our heart,
[1:23:31] helps living beings
to suffer less,
[1:23:36] and helps to protect our planet.
[1:23:43] The consumption of meat and alcohol
[1:23:48] has destroyed much of
our environment and our health.
[1:23:59] We have learned that eating meat
is more polluting than driving a car.
[1:24:07] The meat and alcohol industries
have caused a lot of damage
[1:24:12] to our environment.
[1:24:21] We have learned that
the amount of grain used to make alcohol
[1:24:33] and feed the livestock is huge.
[1:24:39] Tens of thousands of people die every day
[1:24:43] because of the lack of food.
[1:24:51] The Buddha told
the story of a young couple
[1:24:55] who tried to flee from their country
[1:25:00] to take refuge in another country.
[1:25:09] They brought their little boy with them.
[1:25:15] They had to cross a desert
[1:25:17] in order to go to the other country
to take political asylum.
[1:25:25] But they did not calculate well.
[1:25:28] Half way to the desert,
they ran out of food.
[1:25:32] They knew that
the three of them were going to die.
[1:25:37] So finally they made a terrible decision:
[1:25:41] to kill the little boy
and eat the flesh to survive,
[1:25:46] hoping to get out of the desert.
[1:25:51] So after having killed the boy,
they ate one morsel of that flesh
[1:25:58] and preserved the rest
on their shoulder, to dry.
[1:26:03] Every time after having eaten
a piece of that flesh
[1:26:10] they asked: "Where is now
our beloved little boy?"
[1:26:16] They pulled their hair,
they beat their chest,
[1:26:20] they suffered quite a lot.
[1:26:22] But finally they got out of the desert
and were accepted as refugees.
[1:26:30] The Buddha must have heard that story
directly from that couple.
[1:26:38] He told the people listening to him:
[1:26:41] "Dear friends,
[1:26:43] do you think that the couple
[1:26:45] enjoyed eating the flesh
of their little boy?"
[1:26:51] And they said: "No, dear teacher.
[1:26:54] It is impossible for you to enjoy
eating the flesh of your own boy."
[1:27:01] The Buddha then said:
[1:27:03] "In that case, my friends,
[1:27:05] let us eat in such a way
[1:27:10] that we will not eat the flesh
of our sons and daughters."
[1:27:18] The 40.000 children who die every day
because of the lack of food and nutrition,
[1:27:26] who are they?
[1:27:27] They are our sons and daughters.
[1:27:31] The amount of grain that is used
to make alcohol and meat
[1:27:39] should have been used
to save the lives of these children.
[1:27:47] So practicing eating
and drinking mindfully
[1:27:50] we can preserve our compassion,
protect life.
[1:27:56] If there is no compassion in our heart
[1:27:59] we cannot be a happy person.
[1:28:02] Our students can understand this.
[1:28:08] We learn that
if we can reduce the eating of meat
[1:28:13] and the drinking of alcohol
in the developed countries,
[1:28:19] we can already transform
the situation of the Earth.
[1:28:25] So stopping eating meat,
stopping drinking alcohol,
[1:28:29] or reducing it significantly,
[1:28:35] we can save our planet,
we can save lives,
[1:28:40] we can preserve our compassion.
[1:28:51] That is the first source of nutriment:
[1:28:54] edible food.
[1:29:04] (senses impressions)
[1:29:18] The second source of nutriment
is the sense impressions.
[1:29:25] You consume not only with your mouth,
[1:29:28] but with your eyes, ears,
nose, body, mind.
[1:29:38] When you read a newspaper,
you consume.
[1:29:47] When you watch television, you consume.
[1:29:50] When you listen to a conversation,
to music, you consume.
[1:29:57] And what you consume every day
[1:30:01] may contain a lot of poisons, toxins.
[1:30:05] That is not good for your health.
[1:30:10] Our children consume television
several hours a day.
[1:30:16] Many boys and girls spend
5 hours or more with electronic games.
[1:30:25] There is a lot of violence, craving
fear and anger
[1:30:30] in what they consume.
[1:30:33] So consuming that amount
of toxins and poisons
[1:30:38] will not be good
for our physical and mental health.
[1:30:48] Even psychotherapists,
they are supposed to help patients.
[1:30:55] But they spend a lot of time
listening to stories of suffering,
[1:31:02] a lot of despair, hate and sorrow.
[1:31:06] If psychotherapists
don't know how to practice
[1:31:10] generating joy, happiness,
compassion,
[1:31:17] they will lose their balance
[1:31:20] and they will get sick.
[1:31:25] We should know our limits
[1:31:32] so that we can continue for a long time
[1:31:37] in our efforts to help others.
[1:31:43] A conversation can also be highly toxic.
[1:31:48] What the other person tells you
[1:31:51] may be full of anger,
despair, violence.
[1:31:58] During the hour
you are listening to him or to her.
[1:32:02] you consume.
[1:32:07] That is not healthy for you.
[1:32:13] The young people are consuming
a lot of poisons and toxins
[1:32:19] including violence, fear,
despair and anger.
[1:32:27] That is why,
[1:32:30] in the family and in the classroom
[1:32:33] we have to discuss about the practice
of the fifth mindfulness training:
[1:32:38] mindful consumption.
[1:32:40] Mindful consumption is the way out.
[1:32:45] To ensure a physical and mental health
[1:32:51] you have to practice
mindfulness of consumption.
[1:33:03] When you watch a film,
[1:33:05] they stop the film
from time to time for advertisement.
[1:33:10] You consume advertisements.
[1:33:15] They want you to buy.
[1:33:20] That touches
the seed of craving in you.
[1:33:25] You don't need to buy,
[1:33:28] but they urge you to buy.
[1:33:30] And they think
that if you don't buy it,
[1:33:32] you don't have happiness.
[1:33:38] They make you believe
[1:33:40] that happiness is possible
when you have money to buy things.
[1:33:49] But that is not
a right view about happiness.
[1:33:55] True happiness is made of
understanding and love.
[1:34:05] Our students, our children
have to learn about true happiness.
[1:34:13] We should sit down
as a family, as a classroom,
[1:34:16] to discuss about
right, mindful consumption.
[1:34:31] There are articles
in the magazines, in the newspapers,
[1:34:36] that are full of anger, fear, violence.
[1:34:44] And journalists don't report enough
about the healthy things,
[1:34:51] like this retreat.
[1:34:54] (Laughter)
[1:34:55] It is not sensational
the breathing in and out,
[1:35:00] walking peacefully.
[1:35:08] The stories they cover
and the stories that we read
[1:35:15] always contain a lot of anger,
despair, violence and so on.
[1:35:38] That day was the day to commemorate
the death of Mahatma Gandhi.
[1:35:47] I was in New Delhi,
[1:35:50] and a newspaper,
The Times of India,
[1:35:55] invited me to be
guess editor of that day.
[1:36:03] A peace edition.
[1:36:07] So we brought
a number of monastics
[1:36:11] to come to the headquarters
of The Times of India
[1:36:15] and prepared a peace edition.
[1:36:20] That morning bad news came.
[1:36:23] There was a bombing in a city nearby.
[1:36:31] We and other editors
of The Times of India
[1:36:35] were sitting around a big table.
[1:36:39] They asked:
[1:36:40] "Dear Thay, what journalists
should do on a morning like this?
[1:36:47] Terrorist attacks, bombing."
[1:36:54] I advised everyone
to practice mindful breathing
[1:36:58] and calm down.
[1:37:04] We should not say something right away.
[1:37:10] We have to say it with calm inside.
[1:37:15] After a few minutes
of mindful breathing, I said:
[1:37:19] "Of course, we have to report the news.
[1:37:23] But we have to report in such a way,
[1:37:27] that we will not water
the seeds of anger, fear and violence.
[1:37:31] That would be destructive.
[1:37:34] We report about the truth,
[1:37:37] but help people to understand
[1:37:39] why people do things like these.
[1:37:42] They are victims of misunderstanding.
[1:37:52] They are motivated by anger, fear
[1:37:55] and the desire to punish.
[1:37:59] They don't see
[1:38:01] that people do not need punishment.
[1:38:09] They need help.
[1:38:13] We should report.
[1:38:16] But there is a way of reporting
[1:38:19] that can water the seeds
of understanding and compassion
[1:38:23] in the heart of the readers.
[1:38:26] So in that day,
[1:38:28] we tried to write a report
on the terrorist attack in such a way
[1:38:32] that helped people to know
[1:38:35] why people have done
such a thing to their own countrymen.
[1:38:41] When you read it you can see
[1:38:43] that we water understanding
and compassion in you.
[1:38:53] If we consume without mindfulness,
[1:38:58] we get a lot of toxins and poisons
[1:39:01] and we get sick.
[1:39:03] Our family will get sick,
our city gets sick,
[1:39:06] our country gets sick.
[1:39:08] And we can easily
involve ourselves into a war.
[1:39:24] (volition)
[1:39:30] The third kind of nutriment
is volition.
[1:39:35] It means our aspiration,
our deepest desire.
[1:39:41] Each one of us wants to do
something with his life.
[1:39:49] Each one of us should have
the time to sit down
[1:39:52] and ask himself:
[1:39:54] What do I want to do with my life?
[1:39:56] What is my deepest aspiration?
[1:40:01] Because there are those who think
[1:40:03] that their deepest desire
is to have a lot of money,
[1:40:08] to be number one
[1:40:13] in their business.
[1:40:21] To have a lot of power, fame, and sex,
[1:40:26] sensual pleasures.
[1:40:29] But running after
these objects of craving
[1:40:33] can bring destruction
to our body and mind.
[1:40:38] So that is not
my deepest aspiration.
[1:40:45] The terrorists,
[1:40:47] what they want to do most
is to punish.
[1:40:52] They may believe that they do so
in the name of justice, of God.
[1:40:59] But it is motivated
by the desire to punish,
[1:41:03] to destroy.
[1:41:06] That is not good food.
[1:41:09] When you are motivated by anger,
[1:41:15] by the desire to punish,
[1:41:18] your nutriment is not healthy.
[1:41:22] But if you are motivated
[1:41:25] by the desire to help
young people to suffer less,
[1:41:30] that is good nutriment.
[1:41:33] If your desire is to change the world
in a better direction,
[1:41:41] that is good food.
[1:41:43] If your desire is
to help people to suffer less,
[1:41:48] to know how to practice true love,
[1:41:50] to promote mutual
understanding and reconciliation
[1:41:53] that is good food.
[1:41:57] When you have
that block of energy in you,
[1:42:01] you are strong enough
[1:42:03] to overcome
whatever obstacles on your path.
[1:42:18] So the third kind of nutriment
[1:42:21] is... (Vietnamese)
[1:42:26] The third kind of nutriment
is a source of energy.
[1:42:30] We have to find it out.
[1:42:33] If our deepest desire
is to protect the environment,
[1:42:39] to protect Mother Earth,
[1:42:40] that is a good desire,
that is good food.
[1:42:44] You have a good motivation.
[1:42:46] What you want to do with your life
[1:42:51] is the third nutriment,
volition.
[1:42:58] We have to help the young people
[1:43:03] to have a good aspiration,
[1:43:06] finding the meaning of life,
[1:43:09] making their lives meaningful,
[1:43:14] giving them a lot of energy
[1:43:18] so that they have something meaningful
to do with their lives.
[1:43:25] If schoolteachers have it,
[1:43:28] have that source
of energy in themselves,
[1:43:30] they can transmit it
to their students.
[1:43:35] I am also a teacher.
[1:43:39] Every day I transmit to my students,
[1:43:43] monastic and lay people,
[1:43:45] that kind of energy.
[1:43:51] My students
[1:43:53] have a very simple life,
[1:43:59] specially the monastics.
[1:44:02] No one of them
[1:44:07] have a bank account.
[1:44:10] No one of them have a salary.
[1:44:14] No one of them have
a private home, private car.
[1:44:19] And yet,
they are happy people.
[1:44:24] They spend time
building brotherhood, sisterhood,
[1:44:28] a community of practice.
[1:44:30] They have organized retreats
to help people to suffer less.
[1:44:33] We operate not as individuals,
[1:44:38] but as a community.
[1:44:41] Joy, happiness, compassion,
[1:44:45] are possible with a simple life,
[1:44:49] provided that you have
a source of aspiration.
[1:44:55] That is the third nutriment:
[1:44:57] the ideal to serve and
to help people to suffer less.
[1:45:02] So teachers should,
first of all,
[1:45:05] have that kind of aspiration.
[1:45:09] And then, they can
transmit to their students
[1:45:12] the same kind of energy.
[1:45:14] When the students
have that kind of energy,
[1:45:18] they suffer less.
[1:45:20] They know where to go.
[1:45:23] In what direction to go
[1:45:25] and not to destroy their body and mind
[1:45:30] looking for sensual pleasures and so on.
[1:45:39] The last source of nutriment
is consciousness.
[1:45:51] (consciousness)
[1:46:09] We consume our own consciousness.
[1:46:13] There are good things
in our consciousness to consume.
[1:46:20] In our consciousness there is a Hell.
[1:46:25] There is also a Paradise,
the Kingdom of God.
[1:46:31] In Buddhism,
we speak about consciousness
[1:46:33] in terms of seeds.
[1:46:42] (seeds)
[1:46:51] There is a seed of love.
[1:46:56] There is a seed of compassion,
[1:46:58] the seed of joy, of happiness,
[1:47:03] the seed of brotherhood, sisterhood,
[1:47:05] forgiveness,
[1:47:07] there are many good things
in our consciousness.
[1:47:10] If we know how to water
the seeds every day,
[1:47:17] they will grow.
[1:47:19] The Paradise,
[1:47:22] the Kingdom of God
will be for us to consume.
[1:47:29] When you listen to a talk like this,
[1:47:35] when you have a discussion
about compassion,
[1:47:38] how to help people
to suffer less,
[1:47:46] you water the good seeds in you.
[1:47:50] It means that the Paradise,
[1:47:52] the Kingdom of God
is in you.
[1:47:56] You help it to manifest
[1:47:59] for yourself and for your beloved ones.
[1:48:03] But there is also Hell inside.
[1:48:07] The suffering transmitted to us
[1:48:12] by our parents and ancestors.
[1:48:17] Suffering that has not been understood,
[1:48:21] that has not been transformed
[1:48:24] and that has been transmitted to you,
[1:48:27] to us.
[1:48:30] If we know the practice,
[1:48:33] we can transform them.
[1:48:35] Otherwise,
[1:48:36] they are always there,
in our consciousness.
[1:48:41] The sufferings of our ancestors
are still there, in us.
[1:48:46] We continue to suffer
the suffering of our ancestors.
[1:48:52] Their frustration,
their anger, their fear,
[1:48:55] are still in us.
[1:48:58] Also during our childhood
we may have suffered.
[1:49:03] We may have been abused
[1:49:06] with violence.
[1:49:12] Many of us tend to go back
[1:49:15] to that dark corner
in our consciousness
[1:49:19] and experience again
the suffering of the past.
[1:49:26] We know that life
in the present moment is wonderful.
[1:49:30] The blue sky,
[1:49:32] the beautiful trees.
[1:49:36] Flowers, children.
[1:49:39] But we are not capable
[1:49:42] of being established
in the present moment.
[1:49:47] Because we have a painful past.
[1:49:51] Many of us are drawn back
to that dark corner of the past
[1:49:57] and watch again and again
[1:49:59] the projections
of the films of the past
[1:50:03] in order to experience again
the suffering of the past.
[1:50:08] That is a kind of prison.
[1:50:13] If the other person,
[1:50:15] if your partner uses to do that,
[1:50:18] you have to help him or her to get out.
[1:50:21] "Darling,
[1:50:22] life is beautiful out here
in the present moment.
[1:50:25] Why do you go always back
to that dark place?
[1:50:31] That is only the past.
[1:50:34] The past is already gone."
[1:50:38] With mindfulness, with joy
[1:50:40] you can help bring him or her
[1:50:43] out of that dark corner
of consciousness.
[1:50:50] Because there is a Paradise,
[1:50:53] there is a Kingdom of God
in the present moment
[1:50:55] for you to enjoy.
[1:50:57] Why do you have
to go back to the past,
[1:51:01] to that corner?
[1:51:04] Of course,
[1:51:06] psychotherapists are trying
to help us to do the same.
[1:51:12] But if psychotherapists
can do it by themselves,
[1:51:16] then they can help
their patients to do the same.
[1:51:23] Then,
[1:51:27] there is the collective consciousness.
[1:51:30] As food.
[1:51:33] We know that there are
very angry groups of people.
[1:51:43] Full of despair, and violence,
[1:51:46] and anger.
[1:51:48] There are neighborhoods like that,
[1:51:51] where children are born and grow.
[1:51:57] Everyone in that neighborhood
is generating hate, anger,
[1:52:04] fear, despair and violence every day.
[1:52:08] And as you are born and grown in that,
[1:52:10] you consume every day.
[1:52:12] You cannot be a happy person
[1:52:15] if you consume that collective energy
of hate, anger, violence.
[1:52:22] If you happen to live
in that neighborhood,
[1:52:26] you should wake up
[1:52:29] and know that this is not
a healthy environment.
[1:52:32] You have to pull out
as soon as possible
[1:52:36] and look for
a healthier environment
[1:52:39] to heal yourself
and help heal your children.
[1:52:44] Because you do not want to consume
[1:52:46] that collective energy
of anger and hate.
[1:52:54] After having practiced
and healed ourselves
[1:52:56] we can come back
as a community to help.
[1:53:02] But not before.
[1:53:07] I think that as a minister of environment,
[1:53:11] a minister of education,
[1:53:20] taking care of urbanism,
[1:53:23] we have to meditate on these matters.
[1:53:27] How to transform
these violent neighborhoods,
[1:53:31] full of fear and anger.
[1:53:34] What kind of practice
can help to heal.
[1:53:37] This is a very important issue.
[1:53:45] To create a community
[1:53:50] where there is brotherhood,
sisterhood and joy,
[1:53:55] is to create a healthy environment.
[1:53:58] That is the most wonderful thing.
[1:54:01] If you put yourself in that atmosphere,
[1:54:05] if your children have the opportunity
to live in such a healthy atmosphere,
[1:54:11] they will grow up as happy people.
[1:54:15] So community building
is very important.
[1:54:23] Belonging to a group of people,
[1:54:26] we try to practice in such a way
[1:54:30] that shows the people how to consume.
[1:54:35] We should not allow ourselves
[1:54:37] to consume the collective
energy of anger.
[1:54:39] That is not good for our health,
[1:54:41] for the health of our nation.
[1:54:46] We should have compassion
and understanding.
[1:54:51] That will heal us
[1:54:53] and help heal the people
whom we think to be our enemies.
[1:55:04] We know that if we have
enough peace, joy and compassion,
[1:55:09] we can serve many people.
[1:55:12] We don't need
[1:55:15] to think of divorce,
separation, anymore.
[1:55:21] We don't need to establish
a separate country anymore.
[1:55:26] Because there is enough compassion,
understanding and happiness.
[1:55:34] If we are thinking
of divorcing, separating,
[1:55:38] setting up a separate nation,
[1:55:43] it is because we do not have
enough compassion,
[1:55:47] understanding,
brotherhood and sisterhood,
[1:55:50] joy and happiness.
[1:55:52] With the practice of mindfulness
we will have enough of these things
[1:55:56] and we don't have
to think about other things.
[1:56:05] So the five mindfulness trainings
[1:56:07] are the very concrete expression
[1:56:13] of the practice of mindfulness.
[1:56:16] If we ourselves,
and the young people
[1:56:20] live according to
the five practices of mindfulness,
[1:56:25] then happiness is possible,
compassion is possible,
[1:56:30] healing is possible.
[1:56:34] A schoolteacher should embody
[1:56:40] that kind of mindful living,
[1:56:43] that kind of compassion
and understanding.
[1:56:46] They will help
the young generation tremendously
[1:56:53] in their transformation and healing.
[1:56:58] We will continue tomorrow.
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