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[0:04] Good morning dear Thai, dear Sana.
[0:09] Today is the 11th of July in the year
[0:13] 2025 and we are in the first day or the
[0:18] second day of the
[0:21] summer opening and we are in Upper
[0:23] Hamlet.
[0:26] You have made it.
[0:29] You have arrived.
[0:33] Can I see a show of hands who brought
[0:35] children here?
[0:39] Yes.
[0:41] Especially with you. You had to go
[0:44] through a registration system where it
[0:47] is unknown whether you will make it or
[0:50] not.
[0:51] But you were um you were selected.
[1:02] Unfortunately,
[1:04] um the we have many more requests for
[1:07] people joining Plum Village than we have
[1:09] space to offer and capacity to offer
[1:13] and we have to say no to people
[1:17] and we could say yes to you.
[1:21] Um so at one hand it is sad
[1:26] that we have to say no. On the other
[1:28] hand it is also a very good sign because
[1:31] it is meaning that people
[1:35] want to come to Plum Village. They want
[1:37] to practice here especially with their
[1:39] children.
[1:41] So
[1:43] it is um
[1:45] yeah very special to bring our children
[1:48] here
[1:50] to arrive here.
[1:54] [Music]
[1:56] So maybe we can hear a few people.
[2:03] Why was it important for your family to
[2:07] come to Plum Village at this moment in
[2:10] your family life? Can I see a few hands?
[2:14] Why is it important? Yes.
[2:20] >> I came with my grandson and my daughter.
[2:25] So as I appreciate
[2:29] teaching
[2:30] as precious
[2:33] happiness. So I want to give them the
[2:36] opportunity
[2:38] to be in touch with this
[2:41] >> because it's
[2:43] it's an experience and I know you know
[2:46] something.
[2:50] >> Yeah. So she is sharing that she is
[2:54] coming here with your grandson and
[2:56] granddaughter
[2:57] and that she really appreciates the
[2:59] dharma and she wants her uh
[3:04] grandchildren to also have a chance to
[3:07] experience it
[3:10] because an experience is something that
[3:12] really continues on and so she wanted to
[3:16] offer that opportunity. Yeah.
[3:19] somebody else. Why did you bring your
[3:21] family here? Yes.
[3:31] >> Political crisis and personal crisis
[3:36] and
[3:45] now I think it's the right time to
[3:48] open.
[4:09] So the our friend over there is sharing
[4:11] that she found Plum Village um um
[4:16] struggling with political crisis. and
[4:19] personal crisis. She came in the climate
[4:21] retreat and um she felt um so much has
[4:26] already been offered and she wanted to
[4:27] continue offering also back and so she
[4:31] really wanted to plant seeds in her
[4:35] children so that hopefully those seeds
[4:38] will find a place so that when their uh
[4:43] her children will grow up as adults
[4:46] hopefully that seat will be there for
[4:48] them in time when they need
[4:51] So beautiful.
[4:53] So she was saying that the seed of love
[4:56] and compassion.
[4:59] So when I when I came here um in the
[5:02] courtyard I I walked into Tabung
[5:06] and Tyabun he uh he said good luck
[5:09] brother
[5:11] and uh offer offer your compassion.
[5:16] And I told him I said yes Tai over the
[5:18] years I mean so many seeds have been
[5:21] planted in me and I can trust in those
[5:25] seeds that those seeds will then be able
[5:28] to flourish and be offered um in the
[5:32] form of a talk and I find it so
[5:34] beautiful that words that can like that
[5:39] my energy of the food that I've eaten in
[5:43] these pays
[5:45] the energy of the love and kindness I've
[5:48] received from my brothers and my sisters
[5:50] and the lay friends
[5:52] that all of that investment can now
[5:54] manifest as words and that these words
[5:57] can now manifest in your ears as sound
[6:01] and that somehow that can
[6:04] come into your consciousness and become
[6:06] part of you and then maybe because of
[6:08] that you will continue on as a different
[6:12] person.
[6:14] I find that a very I find that an an
[6:17] honor to see that this kind of way of
[6:21] living matters.
[6:23] And I think many many of you came
[6:25] because you look at your life, you look
[6:29] at the world
[6:31] and that you want to have a different
[6:33] way of continuing things. How can I take
[6:37] care of myself?
[6:39] How can I take care of the world?
[6:42] what can I continue to offer
[6:47] so that uh my practice is not individual
[6:51] only how I practice it has a chance to
[6:55] continue in other people as well.
[6:59] So I find that very beautiful this this
[7:01] deepening insight like I'm not
[7:04] practicing for myself alone
[7:07] here as parents you're practicing not
[7:09] only for yourself but also for your
[7:11] children.
[7:13] The peace and joy that you have in your
[7:16] home, that is the energy that you offer
[7:18] as an environment for your children to
[7:20] get nourished by.
[7:23] Even the little baby over there
[7:27] maybe
[7:29] will not understand my words
[7:33] but maybe the energy in the room
[7:38] will be taken in
[7:41] and that is also nourishment.
[7:46] So
[7:48] you have arrived
[7:53] We sing this song. I've arrived.
[7:56] I am home.
[8:02] We arrive in the present moment.
[8:06] Actually, we never leave the present
[8:08] moment.
[8:12] We only lose the capacity to
[8:16] enjoy the present moment
[8:19] to savor the present moment.
[8:23] Somewhere we have this amazing brain
[8:26] that is capable of creating a reality
[8:30] that sometimes
[8:33] becomes more real
[8:36] than what is happening right in front of
[8:38] us.
[8:43] So what is real and what is true and why
[8:46] do we come back to the present moment
[8:51] or another question why do we leave the
[8:54] present moment?
[8:57] What is it in the present moment that is
[8:59] so interesting
[9:02] that it is less interesting to be with
[9:06] life around us and more interesting
[9:09] to go in our thoughts, in our feelings,
[9:15] in our analyzing?
[9:21] What is it
[9:25] in the present moment
[9:28] where we want to go back to?
[9:32] So
[9:35] what I find when I'm in the present
[9:37] moment,
[9:40] I find like that I have a body.
[9:45] There's all of these things happening in
[9:46] my body.
[9:49] It's like swirling sensations in my body
[9:52] like in my chest, in my belly, in my
[9:54] legs, in my arms.
[9:58] I have my breath.
[10:03] A breath can be so nourishing.
[10:09] And sometimes a breath
[10:13] can be not what I need.
[10:17] Sometimes there are when I come back to
[10:20] the present moment I'm I like it's not
[10:24] pleasant at all what I'm finding
[10:27] I'm finding unpleasant feelings
[10:30] I'm finding a feeling of
[10:37] and when I find something unpleasant
[10:40] like that
[10:42] it is very interesting what happens
[10:45] because very often
[10:47] That is when I jump right into it
[10:52] and I start to actually consume my
[10:54] suffering.
[10:59] Is that recognizable for anybody?
[11:02] Do you sometimes have that? You
[11:05] recognize suffering and you go like,
[11:07] "Okay, let's take a swim in it.
[11:18] Breathing in, I am aware. I am swimming
[11:21] in my suffering.
[11:25] Breathing out,
[11:27] I can choose. Do I want to continue
[11:30] swimming in this
[11:35] or can I become aware of all the other
[11:39] things that are also present in me right
[11:42] now in this moment?
[11:47] For me, what can be very helpful
[11:51] is recognize where in my present moment
[11:54] experience am I not swimming in my
[11:57] suffering?
[12:00] Maybe my feet are not swimming in my
[12:02] suffering.
[12:06] So, I go back to my feet
[12:09] or maybe my breath.
[12:12] I go back to my breath.
[12:18] The silence in the room.
[12:29] The sound of a baby.
[12:36] It's very interesting for me is when I
[12:39] choose to stay with that which is
[12:42] supporting
[12:45] also something happens in my body.
[12:48] Something feels there is more space
[12:52] deep inside of me
[12:55] and I am more free.
[13:57] So when we arrive in the present moment,
[14:01] we can see that there are things that we
[14:05] can
[14:07] pay attention to that will bring more
[14:09] well-being.
[14:10] And there are things that we bring our
[14:13] attention to and it's actually
[14:14] increasing our ill-being.
[14:18] And very often the ill-being might have
[14:21] almost like a magnetic attraction
[14:24] making it more real. The unpleasant very
[14:28] often is actually
[14:30] like an attraction where it becomes
[14:33] somehow more important.
[14:37] And it is in those moments that I can
[14:40] recognize,
[14:42] wa do I have enough space in order to
[14:45] take care of it? Because I don't if I
[14:48] don't have the space, I might actually
[14:50] be nourishing the suffering instead of
[14:53] embracing the suffering.
[14:58] So we can create that space by becoming
[15:00] also aware of that which in the present
[15:03] moment
[15:05] is supporting
[15:09] is enjoyable enough.
[15:13] And so moment by moment, we have this
[15:15] choice.
[15:17] Where do I place my awareness?
[15:21] What do I nourish in myself?
[15:26] And this is a real art.
[15:30] So in order to help us train this,
[15:35] we have in our monastery the bells that
[15:38] help us to stop.
[15:41] And for me is very interesting to ask a
[15:44] question
[15:49] what do we stop?
[15:56] And is it true that we stop everything?
[16:02] Because I don't stop my heartbeat. I
[16:05] don't start my stop my breath.
[16:08] I don't stop my mind.
[16:13] But I recognize maybe in that moment
[16:16] that there is something in me that is
[16:18] running.
[16:21] And what is running in me?
[16:26] There's a story from the Buddha
[16:29] where a a criminal
[16:33] who had um harmed many many people
[16:38] came to the Buddha and he saw the Buddha
[16:40] walking and he said Buddha stop
[16:45] and the Buddha kept walking and he
[16:48] became angry. He said, "Stop there."
[16:52] And at one moment
[16:55] he kept walking
[16:58] and angul angula
[17:01] came up to the Buddha and walked next to
[17:05] him and I said, I said, "Stop." And the
[17:07] Buddha looked at him
[17:10] and he said, "I've stopped many years
[17:14] ago.
[17:17] Why are you still running?
[17:22] What is running in me?
[17:28] Very often, what is running
[17:31] is these feelings I'm holding in my body
[17:34] that have not been able to take care of.
[17:40] And these feelings
[17:44] are left unattended and they're knocking
[17:50] and I try to resolve them out there.
[17:54] And so what I can do is I can stop and
[17:59] recognize, huh,
[18:02] what in me is being left alone?
[18:07] What am I feeling right now that is in
[18:10] need of my awareness?
[18:17] So maybe you can check in with yourself
[18:19] if there's something like that
[18:23] alive in you in this moment.
[18:31] And if you want to join me in a little
[18:32] exercise
[18:34] is you can
[18:36] hold that feeling and express it by
[18:40] pressing in your hand like a fist.
[18:46] You just match it.
[18:51] Hello feeling.
[18:54] Ah yeah like this you feel
[18:57] strong
[18:59] or soft like this just check in
[19:04] match the pressure with the feeling
[19:13] and now with your other hand try to pry
[19:15] it open.
[19:22] I notice in myself when I do that my
[19:25] feeling goes like hey hell no.
[19:32] So just keep keep that feeling holding
[19:36] the hand
[19:41] and now become aware of what is in you
[19:43] and around you.
[19:46] What is supportive
[19:50] with your breath, your body,
[19:54] the space that you're in? Where are you
[19:56] right now?
[20:01] Really feel arrive in space. You can
[20:05] orient yourself in space.
[20:09] And now this hand can be below the other
[20:12] fist
[20:14] and let it rest.
[20:18] And notice
[20:36] it doesn't want to
[20:38] for me it doesn't want to hold as
[20:40] tightly anymore.
[20:44] It feels so much easier to not be alone.
[20:49] So, how can I be kind like this to
[20:52] myself?
[20:56] How can I know what I need in order to
[20:58] take care of myself in the moment?
[21:07] Thank you.
[21:20] Does anybody like to share how it was to
[21:23] hold the fist like this and the
[21:25] difference between prying it open and
[21:27] holding it in your hand?
[21:31] Is there somebody
[21:34] also? Yeah, please.
[21:49] Yeah. So she was sharing that she felt
[21:52] the same thing as what I was describing
[21:55] that once she came with the hand that um
[21:59] the tension just let go without the
[22:01] trying to to make a change.
[22:07] So we have many many ways of how we can
[22:10] gently come back to ourselves to hold
[22:14] what is present
[22:17] and one of our favorite practices of our
[22:19] teacher was walking meditation.
[22:24] He so loved his walking meditation. He
[22:27] would so often remind us I am not
[22:30] sitting in a wheelchair.
[22:33] I can still walk.
[22:36] But even if I would be in a wheelchair,
[22:39] I could still enjoy the movement.
[22:42] But as I can still walk,
[22:45] I can so enjoy the walking.
[22:59] So we walk
[23:01] to so many places in our lives
[23:05] and for me the savoring of walking is
[23:08] one of my main practices
[23:12] because when I
[23:14] walk I feel it's easier than sitting
[23:18] meditation when you hold your body still
[23:22] sometimes holding my body still makes my
[23:24] mind more agitated
[23:28] and when I walk, I feel that um there is
[23:32] more happening in my body. And so it
[23:35] feels there is more of a flow that can
[23:38] happen in me.
[23:41] And so what I do is I bring my awareness
[23:44] to my left foot and I feel my body shift
[23:48] to the left
[23:51] and I bring it to the right foot and I
[23:54] feel my body shift to the right.
[23:58] left and it's almost like a metronome
[24:00] that goes from the left
[24:03] to the right
[24:06] from the left
[24:09] to the right.
[24:12] So walking like this I am not walking in
[24:14] order to arrive
[24:16] somewhere else. Our
[24:21] practice is that the present moment is
[24:23] there all the time
[24:25] and I can really savor the journey.
[24:28] I can savor the moment when I lift my
[24:32] right foot
[24:34] and place it on the ground.
[24:37] I can feel this contact as if
[24:41] my feet is like kissing the earth.
[24:46] There's a meeting between me and the
[24:47] earth.
[24:50] and I can be fully present for that
[24:52] meeting
[24:54] really savor that step
[25:00] and then if it feels enjoyable you can
[25:03] enjoy you can as well connect your
[25:05] breath to the steps.
[25:08] So maybe in a walking meditation we have
[25:11] like
[25:13] one,
[25:15] two,
[25:18] three breaths,
[25:20] three steps on the inb breath and maybe
[25:30] three or four steps on the outreath.
[25:35] And we can allow our breath to be
[25:37] natural and enjoyable. So we pay
[25:40] attention to the breath and the steps,
[25:43] the movement of the body
[25:46] and the energy of the sana collectively
[25:49] around.
[25:52] It's very precious to have a whole group
[25:54] of people who come together
[25:58] to walk to stop
[26:02] who find it important enough to come
[26:05] back to themselves so that they can
[26:09] create this space for themselves and
[26:11] also give this space to all the people
[26:13] around them.
[26:15] It's very very special to walk together
[26:19] like that.
[26:22] And then we have beautiful nature here
[26:23] around us. We have the birds deep that
[26:27] we can hear. We have the wind in the
[26:31] trees.
[26:33] There's so much nature around that we
[26:35] can allow ourselves to be in touch with
[26:38] to nourish our being.
[26:43] So walking for me is
[26:46] an act out of freedom.
[26:49] I walk for the enjoyment of walking.
[26:54] I come back to myself for the enjoyment
[26:56] of coming back to myself.
[26:59] I follow my breath for the enjoyment of
[27:03] being with my breath.
[27:06] I sit
[27:08] for the enjoyment of sitting.
[27:11] So very often when we practice and go
[27:14] home and we ask how do can you continue
[27:17] the practice after plum village
[27:21] my answer is is you continue and doing
[27:26] what you enjoy doing. you continue and
[27:29] you use the collective energy of Plum
[27:33] Village where it will be a bit more easy
[27:36] to do because everybody else is is doing
[27:40] this as well. So you can sort of rest in
[27:42] the collective energy
[27:45] and we use that resting in the
[27:47] collective energy to create the habits
[27:52] in order for you to do it later when you
[27:54] go back home.
[27:57] So the art now is to learn to really
[28:00] enjoy it, to really investigate in
[28:03] yourself.
[28:05] How can I make the practice something
[28:08] that I'm not forcing myself into but
[28:11] something that I can enjoy?
[28:15] So I hope that
[28:18] when we walk in Plum Village, we can all
[28:21] adapt the style of walking meditation.
[28:25] So at any moment where you walk
[28:27] somewhere
[28:28] that you can enjoy your walking and that
[28:31] does not necessarily mean that it has to
[28:33] be very very slow.
[28:38] We walk to the toilet, we walk to the
[28:42] meditation home
[28:45] already. When we walk to the meditation
[28:48] home, we know that we are taking care of
[28:52] being in the meditation home. The moment
[28:55] that we start walking to the meditation
[28:58] hall, the meditation already starts
[29:00] there.
[29:04] So
[29:07] what we do is we plant these seeds
[29:10] moment by moment and then they continue
[29:12] being ripened. From the walking we go
[29:16] into sitting.
[29:19] In sitting we enjoy being with the
[29:21] breath.
[29:25] If it is not enjoyable to be with the
[29:27] breath,
[29:29] then we can be with the body.
[29:33] If it's not enjoyable to be with the
[29:35] body, we can be with the space and the
[29:38] energy and the collective energy around
[29:40] you.
[29:43] If that's not enjoyable, then you stand
[29:45] up and you walk outside and practice
[29:47] walking meditation.
[29:50] There's no need to force yourself.
[29:53] If it is enjoyable to meditate with your
[29:56] eyes closed, wonderful.
[30:00] Sometimes it's more enjoyable to have
[30:02] your eyes open. Also good.
[30:07] It's so important to see what is
[30:10] important for you in the moment because
[30:13] if you're caught in an idea of like this
[30:16] is what is meditation and it should be
[30:19] like this
[30:21] you might actually be losing your
[30:23] freedom
[30:26] and for that I have this little little
[30:28] fellow with me.
[30:32] Is everybody still awake?
[30:34] Yes.
[30:37] This is my bear.
[30:40] It's called Slova. And my bear Slova
[30:46] was um given to my brother when he um
[30:50] was born.
[30:52] So my brother is now 47, I think, or 46.
[30:57] 46. So my bear is 46 years old, although
[31:02] he still feels very young. I think bears
[31:05] are timeless.
[31:09] So this bear
[31:12] was with me
[31:15] the uh many uh many many times. Oh, I so
[31:19] love walking with my bear.
[31:24] At one moment in my life, my mother saw
[31:28] me walking a little bit depressed
[31:32] and she observed me as I was walking
[31:37] and she saw hm what's wrong? Something
[31:42] is wrong.
[31:45] So she became mindful.
[31:47] She started to investigate.
[31:50] She started to observe. She had
[31:53] curiosity.
[31:55] So she observed me and at one moment she
[31:57] noticed, "Wait,
[32:01] why doesn't he has his bear with him?"
[32:04] And so she asked me, she said, "Bart,
[32:10] where's your bear?"
[32:12] And I said, "I am now too big for a
[32:15] bear."
[32:18] I am now too big for a bear.
[32:24] And immediately as mothers have their
[32:27] intuition available, at least my mother,
[32:30] she said, "Oh,
[32:33] but is your bear old enough to be
[32:37] without you?"
[32:42] And I was like,
[32:47] and she gave me a way back to my bear.
[32:56] But I think this was maybe
[32:59] the first time
[33:02] that as a child, as a human being,
[33:07] I recognize, I remember being caught in
[33:10] a view.
[33:13] I am now too old for my bear.
[33:17] Don't know how I got that view. maybe
[33:20] from my brother because he was old
[33:21] enough. I don't know.
[33:27] This view of like, oh, I'm a man. I
[33:31] don't have I should not have feelings.
[33:37] Do you have views like that that you've
[33:40] decided about yourself?
[33:45] And what are the consequences of that?
[33:51] So it's a good it's a good one to take
[33:53] with you.
[33:55] What are the views that I'm holding
[34:01] that now? No.
[34:06] For example, why do we stop playing as
[34:09] adults?
[34:13] Especially in the west
[34:16] when they came to Vietnam there were
[34:18] many many they were still playing
[34:21] they would go to the beach and they
[34:23] would just play games with each other
[34:26] but very often we let go of play and joy
[34:31] when we got older
[34:35] joy no that's not for me I'm serious I'm
[34:39] a serious practitioner
[34:46] That view is of a bare nature.
[34:51] Sometimes we need to learn to tolerate
[34:53] again joy and play.
[34:58] We can see in ourselves how we are with
[35:00] our children.
[35:02] What kind of views am I holding that is
[35:04] actually preventing me from
[35:07] truly connecting?
[35:13] And when you see those views, maybe you
[35:16] can allow them to soften up.
[35:25] And actually,
[35:26] it's it's kind of strange. You know, the
[35:29] story of teddy bears.
[35:31] I looked it up.
[35:33] So the story of the teddy bear is that
[35:36] many years ago Teddy Roosevelt
[35:39] refused to shoot a bear. At at that time
[35:43] hunting was uh very
[35:47] uh was very normal
[35:49] and they were out to shoot bears but
[35:51] they couldn't find any bears. So they
[35:54] brought out the bear that they had
[35:55] abused and they were like okay shoot the
[35:58] bear. And Teddy Roosevelt refused. was
[36:01] like, "What's what's the point of this?"
[36:03] It's like, "I'm not going to shoot a
[36:05] abused bear." And then in the newspapers
[36:09] came,
[36:10] "Oh, this man, he refuses to shoot a
[36:12] bear." And they made this bear into a
[36:15] very cuddly
[36:16] looking creature.
[36:18] And they were mocking the president. And
[36:20] then they started selling it as bears.
[36:26] But still, I like this idea.
[36:31] The teddy bear was born
[36:34] out of compassion.
[36:40] Also, I think in the time people started
[36:43] to realize that treating each other with
[36:47] compassion and especially children
[36:50] because we used to be very hard on
[36:52] children treating them already quite as
[36:56] adults.
[36:58] I know my mother got the instructions
[37:00] from
[37:02] um people around that when I was a baby
[37:05] I had a lot of eczema and I was really
[37:08] overwhelmed
[37:11] and so I would cry in the middle of the
[37:12] night because I was in overwhelm
[37:15] and I would and she would find me like
[37:17] this
[37:19] crying because it was so itchy.
[37:24] But the common wisdom around was at that
[37:26] time just make them cry. They're only
[37:29] looking for attention.
[37:32] I mean that's the advice that our
[37:34] ancestors had.
[37:37] I mean that was the time.
[37:41] My mom was like that does not feel
[37:43] right. I refuse that.
[37:49] So, I'm very happy with that, that my
[37:52] mom gave me that love in those moments
[37:56] because for me,
[37:58] learning how to regulate my emotions
[38:02] with the parent has taught me how to be
[38:06] and regulate that for myself. So, I can
[38:10] act out of wisdom instead of out of
[38:14] reactivity.
[38:18] or I can learn not to suppress it, but I
[38:21] can learn how to take care of it. And
[38:24] with that, I have been able to train my
[38:27] intuition,
[38:29] take care of the seeds that are in my
[38:32] store consciousness.
[38:35] I think it's very important to learn
[38:38] this kind of kindness and compassion.
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[39:29] So the actions of one president
[39:33] so many years ago
[39:36] is now a teddy bear,
[39:38] is now a dharmatoke.
[39:43] Little would he know that that one
[39:46] action
[39:47] would continue on like that.
[39:53] All of our actions are of that nature.
[39:56] They continue on
[40:01] just like the Buddha has continued on.
[40:06] This man lived 2600 years ago, found the
[40:09] truth and somehow
[40:12] the ripples of those actions are still
[40:15] continuing allowing us all to be here.
[40:20] So that is our nature.
[40:24] So um it's a deep practice in order to
[40:29] touch that nature in ourselves and
[40:31] continuing and taken care of so that we
[40:35] can have a beautiful continuation.
[40:40] So
[40:44] we have uh some more practices that we
[40:46] do in our monastery.
[40:49] And one of them is
[40:54] what will you do when you walk around in
[40:58] the hamlet and you see cups and balls
[41:03] lying around?
[41:06] Do you think that that will happen
[41:09] with all these children around with 400
[41:12] people in the hamlet? Do you think that
[41:15] there are going to be cups and balls
[41:18] lying everywhere?
[41:20] Who thinks that there won't be any cups
[41:23] and balls lying around?
[41:25] Oh, in the back. Some are very positive.
[41:27] Okay. Oh, no, no, no. There's Teen Kai.
[41:30] He's mocking me.
[41:35] Okay.
[41:38] A bowl, a cup.
[41:43] Now there's a meeting taking place. Your
[41:46] eye is seeing a cup.
[41:52] A perception might arise.
[41:55] This is a cup
[41:58] and it is missing an owner.
[42:03] Where is that owner?
[42:06] What were their intentions?
[42:10] Are they not responsible?
[42:13] Blah and blah and blah and blah.
[42:18] That's one way of looking at the cup.
[42:23] Don't you see? Pum village is a place
[42:25] where collectively we should take care
[42:27] of these things. And now you have these
[42:29] people who only think of themselves. Oh
[42:31] my god.
[42:36] I mean,
[42:38] we can recognize maybe our ancestors in
[42:41] that. Does anybody have an ancestor like
[42:43] that? A mother, a father, a grandmother,
[42:46] a grandfather who would offer a judgment
[42:49] like that? Anybody? Yeah.
[42:54] So, you can say, "Hello, mom. Hello,
[42:58] dad. Hello, grandmother. grandfather,
[43:01] teacher,
[43:04] being proper is very important for you.
[43:11] I offer you another
[43:14] um practice
[43:17] which is
[43:22] are you now part of Plum Village
[43:25] this week
[43:29] or are you only a guest coming by?
[43:37] What I find beautiful about plum village
[43:39] is that we are saying like plum village
[43:41] is something that we are creating
[43:43] collectively.
[43:46] Plum village is not made by the
[43:48] monastics and the friends living in plum
[43:51] village. I mean we are only the
[43:53] stewards.
[43:56] We are only the caretakers of this
[43:58] place, the caretakers of the dharma.
[44:02] But it is when we come together as a
[44:04] community that the sana manifests.
[44:07] So we are plum village. You are plum
[44:09] village.
[44:13] So whose cup is that?
[44:18] >> Everybody's cup.
[44:22] So hello my cup.
[44:27] our cup
[44:31] and then you can see do I have the
[44:34] capacity in that moment to take care of
[44:36] that cup
[44:38] and maybe not because you go somewhere
[44:40] but maybe you have the capacity to take
[44:43] the cup and bring it to the washup
[44:45] station and maybe that's your capacity
[44:49] on that moment and you can leave the cup
[44:51] over there is one step closer or maybe
[44:54] even you can wash the cup and you can
[44:57] Enjoy the water and the washing
[45:01] feeling like oh I'm now taking care of
[45:03] some village
[45:07] another choice
[45:10] I mean the same cup two different
[45:14] realities
[45:16] the only difference is your view
[45:19] so which view do you want to cultivate
[45:21] in your life
[45:26] So that's why we also ask you to
[45:30] practice service meditation together
[45:32] because we cannot do it without you. Can
[45:34] you imagine the price of Plum Village if
[45:37] we would all have hired staff cleaning
[45:40] toilets for us, chopping the vegetables,
[45:42] being in the kitchen
[45:46] would be much more expensive in order to
[45:50] be in Pum Village.
[45:55] And what we are doing here is we're
[45:57] giving we're making a reality of this is
[46:00] we have a shared responsibility
[46:02] for the earth.
[46:05] We have a shared responsibility in our
[46:07] houses, in our jobs.
[46:10] We have a shared responsibility in Plum
[46:12] Village.
[46:14] So we give you the chance to cultivate
[46:16] that shared responsibility by working
[46:19] together in surface meditation.
[46:24] So also in there
[46:27] it's the enjoyment of doing it
[46:30] yet
[46:32] we have 400 people 440 people I think
[46:36] we're cooking for
[46:39] 440 people if you give them 100 g of
[46:41] vegetables that is 44 kilo of vegetables
[46:45] if you chop a vegetable in this speed
[46:51] then 44 kil of vegetables will not be
[46:54] chopped.
[46:58] So, how can we chop and be aware of the
[47:02] consequences of our actions as well? The
[47:05] same as if you're in the line of the
[47:07] salad and there's a cutting board. You
[47:10] can very mindfully cut the tomato
[47:15] and that's very enjoyable to cut the
[47:17] tomato.
[47:19] But the 10 people and then the 15 people
[47:22] and then the 20 people and then the 25
[47:24] people who are now all waiting in line,
[47:27] that's you too.
[47:29] Mindfulness doesn't only end in your
[47:31] personal body and experience.
[47:34] Mindfulness is also the impact of your
[47:37] actions on the people around you.
[47:41] So please be aware with that when you're
[47:44] serving,
[47:45] when you are uh chopping,
[47:49] when you're cooking,
[47:53] there's a lot of things happening. So
[47:55] does it now mean that everybody needs to
[47:57] rush while filling your food?
[48:01] You you you
[48:04] It's all the balance.
[48:11] So maybe we can listen to one more sound
[48:14] of the bell.
[48:57] So at times We will be uh enjoying
[48:59] silence which will start after the big
[49:03] temple bell will is will be invited and
[49:07] you are kindly asked to help the
[49:09] children to also um start to calm down
[49:12] so that we can prepare for a new day. Um
[49:17] the silence is a silence that is not
[49:19] oppressive but it is a silence that
[49:22] allows us to
[49:25] process and to um prepare for the new
[49:29] day. So that silence will be all the way
[49:34] until the next day until after we wash
[49:37] up for breakfast.
[49:39] So breakfast we can serve and we can sit
[49:42] anywhere we want.
[49:44] Um and then after washup we can talk
[49:47] again
[49:50] when we uh serve breakfast. Uh some days
[49:54] when we have we go to the other hamlets
[49:57] we will also serve lunch at that time.
[50:00] So I hope all of you brought your um uh
[50:04] boxes with you or I believe there's also
[50:07] boxes available for selling if you if
[50:10] you didn't.
[50:12] And then um for lunch we will either
[50:17] have um today we will have lunch in the
[50:21] Dharma family the little group where you
[50:23] will have a sharing with and where you
[50:24] will work together with
[50:28] um and either the lunches will be um
[50:31] sitting anywhere you want. We sometimes
[50:33] call that picnic lunch.
[50:35] Um and that will happen when we are in
[50:38] the different hamlets after the walking
[50:41] meditation.
[50:43] Then after the walking meditation, we
[50:46] often have the total relaxation, the
[50:49] lying down meditation and then we go
[50:51] after that to our dharma families for uh
[50:55] a sharing and then dinner is usually
[50:59] also in families.
[51:03] So eating again beautiful chance
[51:08] for me it's kind of weird experience
[51:11] when I really think about it that
[51:15] the carrot I eat will become the blood
[51:19] feeding my heart that my very heartbeats
[51:24] are made of the food that I eat.
[51:28] The very hair in my body, the cells in
[51:31] my body,
[51:33] they're all made from the food I eat.
[51:37] And I have a choice to see how that food
[51:40] is produced,
[51:42] what effect it has had in order for this
[51:45] food to be produced.
[51:50] And how now this food has a chance to
[51:52] continue in my actions of body, speech,
[51:55] and mind.
[51:59] So how can I really honor the food to
[52:02] give it a beautiful continuation
[52:05] that the the food has a chance to become
[52:08] the hugs that we give our children.
[52:13] So if we see the food like that that
[52:16] becomes a spiritual thing so much more
[52:20] than just a material thing that you
[52:22] consume in order not to be hungry.
[52:25] And then the eating itself can become
[52:27] the enjoyment.
[52:34] And we have these devices. I don't know.
[52:37] Do you have one?
[52:40] I think the iPhone has only been
[52:42] introduced
[52:44] like 11 years ago. No, like 20 years
[52:47] ago. I don't know. But it has had a
[52:50] major impact.
[52:53] A major impact in our society.
[52:56] I've spoken with the
[52:58] inventors of the iPhone and they regret
[53:03] they regret the impact of it.
[53:10] They tried to make a new product
[53:14] that could replace the iPhone.
[53:18] People really did not like it because
[53:20] they want the convenience of the iPhone.
[53:25] or any other smartphone.
[53:28] But this also has an effect this little
[53:31] device. So
[53:34] what we ask you is uh maybe you can take
[53:37] it a break. Give it a break. I mean the
[53:39] teens have to give them up
[53:42] a week without phone. It's like oh no
[53:44] I'm not going to go to Blum village. Yes
[53:46] you are. No I'm not. It's like well
[53:48] okay.
[53:50] I don't know if you had discussions like
[53:51] that with your teen when they heard that
[53:53] they could not use I see some Mhm.
[53:59] in the end of the week they all like it
[54:02] because it allows them to connect. You
[54:05] see that I see that often now in the
[54:07] news where the schools have decided no
[54:10] more phones in the schools. How it
[54:12] really helped with concentration and
[54:14] especially social connection.
[54:18] So let's hope that we can make these
[54:21] give these u a break
[54:24] and uh and when you use them please use
[54:27] them somewhere where it is not public
[54:30] like in the parking lot or somewhere. So
[54:32] also any conversations you have on the
[54:35] phone is kind of um at places where you
[54:38] don't disturb others.
[54:41] I think that will be wonderful,
[54:44] wonderful for yourself and also a
[54:45] wonderful way to contribute to the
[54:47] energy in Plum Village.
[54:51] Okay,
[54:56] so
[54:59] thank you for being here.
[55:02] You've made it.
[55:05] All of the cells in your body have made
[55:07] it. And welcome to all of the new ones
[55:10] who have just been born in your body.
[55:14] And goodbye to the ones that have died
[55:17] in your body.
[55:22] I hope that the experience of Plum
[55:24] Village can become part of you
[55:27] and that it can continue on in your in
[55:31] your life and in your work. I hope that
[55:34] the practices that we offer here can
[55:37] really make you feel enjoyable
[55:40] and comforting.
[55:43] I hope that the walking will be
[55:45] nourishing.
[55:47] The sitting will be nourishing.
[55:50] The being together can be nourishing.
[55:54] I hope that you can recognize your
[55:57] views. That may be the very obstacle of
[56:02] you stopping investigating what is
[56:05] happening in the present moment
[56:07] that maybe is stopping you from touching
[56:10] happiness and joy.
[56:14] So there's so much to discover.
[56:17] It's very exciting for me to continue
[56:21] exploring.
[56:23] So I hope it will be a wonderful
[56:26] exploration together.
[56:29] So thank you for listening.
[57:34] [Music]